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27-months-old

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I have not forgotten about Ellie’s monthly photo and update. However, when she turned two, I consciously decided that I would reduce the frequency to quarterly.

At 2 1/4, Ellie loves school, the pool, and music class. She can count to twelve, say her ABCs, and recognize many of the capital letters when she sees them written out. For example, she can recognize her name and she likes to point out letters at gas stations, such as the “K” at Circle K. She is amazingly proficient at puzzles. She started out doing the large 24-piece puzzles and doing them by herself after only a few attempts. She’s now even begun to do some small jig-saw puzzles.

Ellie has started to be able to dress herself, and even if she needs help dressing, she insists upon picking out her own outfits. Her vocabulary and ability to communicate clearly impress us, but also make life much easier than if she had limited communication skills. Although we don’t have to deal with not knowing we she wants, we still have to deal with whining and tantrums when we refuse to give in to her requests. Thankfully, she can usually be redirected quickly.

We often hear Ellie singing. The large number of songs and verses she can recite by memory is quite impressive. As mentioned in a recent post, Ellie is very friendly and loves seeing and being with familiar people.

Although we do think she is quite amazing, in full and humble disclosure, she still sleeps with a pacifier, is content to remain sleeping in her crib, and although she understands how to use the potty, she prefers–and uses exclusively–her diapers.

Although you’ll have to wait another three months for a formal update, we hope that our improved blogging have kept you connected to all of our happenings.

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Baby A at 26 weeks

Baby A at 26 weeks

Baby B, with his hand in his eye, at 26 weeks

Baby B, with his hand in his eye, at 26 weeks

 

We had another great ultrasound and doctor’s appointment today.  The babies have grown 8-9oz. each in two weeks.  It’s hard to believe I’m carrying a combined weight of a full-size newborn and still bed-rest free! 

The 4-D ultrasound photos are quite interesting.  Do not be alarmed if they look like aliens to you; we’ve been assured they’re quite healthy and normal. The sonographer was unable to get a 4-D view of Baby C.  However, when she tried again, Baby C decided to put his rear end right on Baby B’s face, thus putting an end to the chance of any more 4-D shots of B or C.  This is the first of many instances I can envision of someone putting his butt in someone else’s face.  At least this instance required no parental intervention. 

Here are the latest measurements of these big, healthy boys:

Baby A: 2lbs, 6oz

Baby B: 2lb, 5oz

Baby C: 2lb, 3oz

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Ellie and Ava

Two great friends, two cute photos:

Their last day of school

Their last day of school

Such love!

Such love!

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The Last Day of School

From the first day of school...

From the first day of school...


...to the last day of school

...to the last day of school


I feel a sense of sadness today on Ellie’s last day of school. I felt a similar kind of sadness when the school year began, but that was all about me and having to let go of my baby. This time I around, I am sad for Ellie. I wonder what it will be like for her to lose her routine, to no longer see the teachers she adores, and to have limited contact with her classmates. In the midst of all the transitions we face this summer, I long for her to have this one secure, reliable, and predictable aspect of her life. We’ll all be finding our way, and I am sure as a resilient child she will be just fine, but I can certainly wish the timing were different.

I have nothing but wonderful things to say about Ellie’s school experience. The teachers have been incredible and I am grateful that she enthusiastically goes to school and often asks to go on her days off. The teachers wrote a letter to the parents describing their favorite memory of each child. For Ellie, they said they recall her naming everyone upon arrival at school. It is such an accurate description of Ellie’s memory, her friendliness, and her fondness for connecting with others. There is no way to quantify the social and academic (at a 2-year-old level, of course) growth that has occurred. However, I know it was far more stimulation and enrichment than we could have provided on our own. We look forward to another great experience for her next year.

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I had to laugh today:
Ellie and Wes were watching the NASCAR race on TV and Ellie said, “they’re chasing.”
I love how she processes familiar concepts with unfamiliar ones to come up with a fairly accurate conclusion.

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Baby Shower

Several of my friends threw a very nice baby shower for us on Sunday.  The theme was ‘diapers and wipes’ and so we received a couple of months’ worth of diapers for our three babies, who will likely use a total of 900-1000 diapers each month.  We also got some nice outfits and accessories to make our baby attire more boyish.  

You will find some long-awaited pregnancy photos below.  Being 25 weeks pregnant, but appearing and measuring 37+ weeks (for a normal singleton pregnancy), makes for quite a sight and for several pregnancy discomforts that are usually reserved for women near term.  It also makes going out in public and running errands a bit of a challenge.  Many strangers ask when I am due.  I either have to lie (i.e. “in a few weeks”) or respond to their utter shock that someone with my belly is not about to deliver, but is actually three months from her due date.  I’m getting used to what life will be like once the babies arrive, as the questions will be even more abundant and intrusive when we are out and about with three babies.  I’m also a bit frightened by what I’ll measure at full-term for triplets (about 34-36 weeks’ gestation) should we have the good fortune to make it that far.  Yikes!!!

Not looking SO pregnant

Not looking SO pregnant

No denying the reality

No denying the reality

 

There are five babies in this picture!

There are five babies in this picture!


Julie and Lindsay

Julie and Lindsay

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Big Sis and Gift-Giver

Practicing for her brothers?

Practicing for her brothers?

Happy Mother's Day!

Happy Mother's Day!

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The Tale of the Roll-up

Several weeks ago, I asked Ellie what she wanted for lunch and she replied, “a roll-up.”  I foolishly dismissed what she said as toddler nonsense.  However, every couple of days, she’d repeat the same request.  I began to consider what she meant (a fruit rollup? a sandwich wrap?). 

I finally got around to buying tortillas and it had been some time since we’d last had a conversation about roll-ups.  So, I told her I was going to make a roll-up for lunch.  She said, “yay, turkey roll-up!!!”  Upon sitting together to eat the roll-up, I asked her who eats roll-ups, assuming this is something she saw another child at school eating.  She replied, “August eats roll-ups.”  A few minutes later she said, “and Basil.”  August and Basil are brothers, so this made logical sense. 

I repeated all of this to the teacher, who confirmed that August and Basil get roll-ups in their lunches and that roll-ups have been appearing in more in more lunches due to August’s enthusiasm for them.  The roll-ups have made quite an impression on Ellie and her classmates, confirming that it’s never too early for peer pressure to begin!  At least it’s taken the guesswork out of one aspect of our lives: what to send in Ellie’s lunch for school.

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Once again, the ultrasound photos are not spectacular.  Perhaps seeing the babies every 2-3 weeks diminishes the awe factor.  They have also gotten so big that it is hard to capture much in each small photo.  Next time, we are supposed to have a 4-D ultrasound, so I’m holding out hope that some blog-worthy images will result. 

At today’s visit, the doctor said that things looked “wonderful” on at least three distinct occasions.  He is very optimistic.  What I find interesting is to look at the growth statistics.  These stats are based on a singleton at 24 weeks’ gestation, so I am amazed at how three babies can each do so well and not, to this point, be inhibited by one another’s presence. 

Baby A: 1lb, 13oz (66.7%)

Baby B: 1lb, 12oz (63.2%)

Baby C: 1lb, 11oz (61.2%)

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Viability

At almost 24 weeks’ gestation, the babies have reached a point of theoretical viability. Therefore, if they were born now, they would have a fair chance of surviving. Given another month, they would almost certainly survive, but with some uncertainty as to the long-term effects of their prematurity. Given two more months, their chances of survival are nearly 100% and the long-term effects minimal.

Since I continue to do well without any restrictions or bed rest, we are hopeful that we can hold off on delivery for a couple more months. Even should complications begin to arise, my doctors have amazed me with all that they are typically able to do to “buy” some time–even weeks–before delivery is imminent.

The topic of the babies’ birth has been on my mind a bit this week, largely because we toured the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) at the hospital. Several years ago I did an internship at this same facility, but they have since redesigned it. I was struck by not only the changes to the facility, but the changes in our lives over the last five years to where our children will now be patients in the unit. There was one particular boy, born at 25 weeks’ gestation, who was so covered in medical equipment (feeding tubes, breathing tubes, wires), that I could barely see any untouched or unblemished skin. I know it will be a hard day when I leave that unit and my children do not.

A day later, I was back at the hospital for a tour of the maternity unit. I realize now it was a mistake to partake in a general tour. I am not a first-time mother, I am not going to arrive at the hospital in labor ready to deliver a full-term baby, and my babies will not be laid on my chest after birth and allowed to stay in my room or the newborn nursery. I wanted to be familiar with the hospital unit and the policies, but I should have arranged for a private tour (like we did with the NICU), because I left the tour disappointed and sad about how different my situation is from what is “normal.”

Nonetheless, we have access to the best facilities and medical professionals in the region…10 minutes from our house. I am healthy and so are the babies. We have a lot to be thankful for. The next few months will challenge us on all levels. But, I truly believe in time–perhaps even years down the line–we’ll enjoy our large family and the unique blessings it brings.

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